9:51 AM
Evil tongues
I guess we just have to live by it. People will not and they don’t want to stop gossiping about you and others. I just don’t understand the joys of talking bad about others. Unless of course, we observe, we analyze and we discuss people and/or situations. Then that’s fine. There’s a fine line that we don’t cross. Conversations are conversations and we’ll know when there’s one. Whereas gossips, you’ll just know it, coz it stings. It’s not about, ‘I’m just speaking the truth’. No such thing lor… Why can’t it be, ‘I know it’s true, but I choose not to tell’. Because, really, I don’t see the benefit of telling, I don’t see why I should know or others should know.
For people who hardly know us, they don’t even know what’s our Bin/Binte, dare speak evil of us. I think their life is too boring that they have to kaypo kaypo wanna know what’s happening in our lives.
Just because I choose not to join their gossiping sessions, I’m considered not their alliance. Ha! No one’s in favour of the other, when someone gossips to you, they gossip about you. So, you are all just the same. Bitch slapping each other.
I have my own principles, and I think, some of the people I know will hold the same sentiments as I do. I believe I’m doing the right thing. I believe now that I’m a Mrs, I should be more responsible, sensitive to uphold that status. I definitely feel more at peace. But if people were to think I’m so kolot, or old pesen, or ‘Apa saje!’ (as they say it) then, so be it. So be it.
So I’ll just take a step back and watch and see how far this could go on and on and on…
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