Saturday, September 18, 2010 12:39 PM
That's my man :p
I told him I need a new telekung once you move in, mine's getting old, a new telekung to new phase of life. And so we went on a search at Geylang on a hot, humid day in the fasting month while everyone else is looking for a baju kurung, i was looking for my telekung. And I found a beautiful creamish one, and then took my card out, when he said, nah, use mine instead. I said, its ok, I can pay for myself. And he said, no no, let me pay for this coz for every time my wife solat, I will get pahala as well. :)
Somewhere I read, you must always speak good things about your partners. Hehe. So ya. :D
There's a book which he gave something about marriage prepatory based on sunnah which says, quoted from the verses, "Men choose women for four reasons: for their money, for their rank, for their beauty and for their religion, but marry one who is religious and you will succeed." We've had so much setbacks. Ones where you'd never imagined happening to us, happened. But we took it with our stride. "Men and women are urged to marry early; and fear of poverty should not be a discouraging factor. The Qur'an assures that Allah shall provide for them from His unbounded favors." True enough, there were abundant of other things that flow in its way and into our life to help us cope with the setback we faced. Cliche as it may sound but we saw things as a sweet blessing in disguise. We're still hoping and praying that these 2 weeks till the day would be a smooth going one. Then, on top of that, that the first 3 months and the rest of our lives would be A-OK. Insyallah. :)
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